Stepfather perversely raped underage stepdaughters for several years and received a life sentence for this (details). Stepfather perversely raped underage stepdaughters for several years and received a life sentence for this (details) And you believed

From overheard by accident.
Well, what if you have ears, but you don’t want to plug? You have to force yourself to listen, sometimes even restrain yourself so as not to interfere with the comments, and sometimes write down.

During the day there are not many people in the cafe, everyone is quiet, the music is barely audible. Someone came to have lunch, someone ran in to talk with a friend, who is for what.

I sit down in my favorite corner, see you for another 10 minutes. They brought me tea, a menu ...
Chilled hands stretched themselves first to tea.
At the next table, half a turn to me, sat two women of about the same age.
They are 35 years old. Stylish, beautiful.
There was a freshly opened bottle of red wine on the table, the aroma of steaks tickling my nostrils.
I didn’t hear the beginning of the conversation, but it’s not difficult to understand ...
From the moment when I heard the phrase: "... yes, he even divided the forks ..." I turned on my hearing.

What about forks, spoons, bowls? He took a flower, given to me three years ago, from the windowsill. Let him be happy. I do not claim any help, or alimony, or property, or anything. Let him just leave the children, me and the walls alone. This is my apartment. Let him forget not only the address, but also the way to the house.
- Yes, okay, you'll get married again. What a beauty! - said a friend.
- No, Lucy, I will never marry again. Do you hear? NEVER! And don’t even think of introducing me to anyone, suggesting to anyone for acquaintance, don’t put yourself or me in a stupid position, - somehow Nelyusya even sharply answered (I’ll call her that, because I never heard her name.

What are you? Look at me! I'm married for the second time, have you forgotten? You know that I'm happy.
- I know and I'm very happy for you. But you and I are in different situations. When you married Gregory, you had no children from your first marriage, and I have two. Two daughters.
- Oh, my God! You will be the first among the women of the planet who will marry a second time with children! Yes, maybe he will love your children so much that their father never loved them like that! Lucy said.

But I don't need this! Do not love my children to someone else's man! I will not let! Do you hear,” NeLucya hissed, lowering her voice, “I won’t let some stranger love my children more than their father. They have a mother who will love them enough. You do not believe me?
- I believe, I believe! - It even seemed to me that Lucy was afraid of such changes in her friend.

Lucy, I never told anyone about what happened to me in the 8th grade and why I ended up here, in this city. Only once did she tell her mother and grandmother, with whom she lived. But my mother didn't believe me. And she didn’t take her to the doctor, because she was afraid of the truth, publicity and shame. And then, two months later, she packed a suitcase for me and sent me to Gomel to study. Here I stayed forever.
After the death of her father, her mother remarried. My sister and I understood that it was hard for her alone. Yes, to be honest, no one really asked our opinion. It's just that one day a hefty man burst into the apartment from the cold with packages, gifts, a Christmas tree, loud, laughing ... He never left us again. Mom was happy with him, and he treated us well. We went to the skating rink, went skiing, went fishing and went to nature. And then my mom gave birth to twins. She didn’t have milk, it was a difficult time, you couldn’t get anything in stores, so they decided that mother and children should be sent to the village to her stepfather’s sister, Lenka, the younger sister, also left with them, she was registered there for school, and I stayed in the city to finish the school year, especially since there were two months left.

Once my stepfather raped me. Silently, without further ado. And he threatened and intimidated me so much that I was even afraid to open my mouth. It just seems that you can tell everything and everyone will understand you and will not condemn you. You can say whatever you want. Yes, and only those who have not been in such a situation speak.

My stepfather raped me twice more before the end of the school year.
I went to the village to my mother a week before the holidays. I begged the class for time, passed all the tests earlier, got grades and left. Why didn't you tell cool? Because I was afraid of threats, and where am I then? The town is small, only two schools and those are almost nearby. Come on, tell me ... Shame and disgrace will not be enough.

In the 9th grade, I returned to the city again. Neither tears nor persuasion helped me stay with my mother. My stepfather sometimes forced me to sleep with him. He explained to me in detail what troubles would be, if anything ...
Mom and children arrived in the city by March 8th. My happiness knew no bounds. She and her children went through a medical examination, were vaccinated, examined, and analyzed. In early April, they again gathered in the village. I couldn't take it anymore and told my mom everything. Do you know what she told me? She said that this could not be, that these were my fantasies, that my stepfather treated my sister and me better than my father did, that I was just jealous that my sister was with her in the village, and I was here ... I suggested that my mother go to doctor and make sure of my words, to which she replied that I could sleep with anyone and turn everything on my stepfather.
But my mother did not go to the village anymore ... I was finishing the school year. You just can't imagine my condition.
Then my mother said that I should go to Gomel, her friend lives here, and enter a college or technical school. She will not write a statement about her stepfather, because she is pregnant again, and if the whole truth is revealed and he is imprisoned, then she will not be able to raise children alone, and she will have to live in disgrace.

I left, entered, lived in a hostel.
Then she went to college and rented a room from an old woman. I studied, took care of my grandmother, we ate and lived from her pension. I told her everything. After her death, I learned that she signed her two-room apartment to me.

I am talking to my sister. Sometimes mom comes, but very rarely. She apologized for what she did then. I understand her...
But never, you hear Lyusya, I will never marry just because I don’t want to repeat my story to my daughters. Outwardly, a normal man, caring and kind, handsome and gentle, will never become a father to someone else's daughters, growing up girls. They will always be strangers to him. And if they are strangers, then there is a chance ... Anyone can be intimidated ...

As an adult, I heard more than once that stepfathers rape their stepdaughters. This is unfortunately not uncommon...

The curtain!

This is the story I overheard.
I'm sure you have something to say...

I think the woman is right.
Getting married a second time is not difficult.
It is difficult to find a man who would not traumatize the psyche of children from his first marriage.

Non-Fictional Stories:

She is terminally intelligent, but a loser.
The instinct of the female cannot be deceived.
Stupid situation or advice is needed sensible.

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Trash regularly bullied a 7-year-old girl while her mother slept.

TERRIBLE MYSTERY
Stanislav Kh., a 25-year-old welder, met Natalya K. in 2004. And when, two years later, Natalya's husband was once again behind bars on charges of theft, Stanislav and Natalya began an affair. Stas moved to Natasha and her daughter Masha in a private house on one of the streets of the Railway Station area.
Natalya drank, did not work. The family lived on the salary of Stas. Stani-Slav spoiled Masha, bought her presents, played with her and took her from school. Deprived of the attention of her parents, the baby even began to affectionately call him "Stasik" and "dad".
But caring and decent-looking "Stasik" turned out to be a monster. About the atrocities that he perpetrated on his stepdaughter, learned by accident.
In the spring of 2008, the district inspectorate for juvenile affairs received information that Masha was being brought up in terrible conditions: there was no heating in the house, the girl went to school dirty and unkempt. In addition, the girl lagged behind her peers in development, was unsociable and seemed to be intimidated.
PDN inspectors took the girl from the house. Soon the baby got to the child protection center. Here, a terrible secret was revealed, about which the girl was silent for two years.
- We noticed that Masha has health problems, - say the staff of the child protection center. - The girl was examined by doctors.
Doctors found injuries in Masha, which she could have received only as a result of sexual violence. Then the girl told about "Stasik".
... Natalia was forced to write a statement against Stanislav. Prosecutorial investigators took up the investigation.

A room in a private house near the Railway Station. Here on the sofa and in
in a "dark" room with no windows, a scoundrel raped a seven-year-old girl.

Defendant Stanislav Kh.
will soon appear in court.

"A DARK ROOM
The ghoul began to rape the girl in the fall of 2006, when she went to first grade. When Natalya went to bed, he came to Masha's room. This room - "dark", without windows - the girl will remember for the rest of her life.
“It will be our secret, just don’t tell your mother,” Stasik assured.
The little girl reluctantly agreed. She endured the pain, just not to scream and wake her mother:
During one of the rapes, Natalia entered her daughter's room. The bastard with his fly open was kneeling in front of the bed on which Masha was sitting. "Go away!" - snarled the ghoul. Natalya nevertheless drove Stas away, but soon reconciled with him, and the rapes continued.

TRAUMA FOR LIFE
Natalia was deprived of parental rights. She never came to visit her daughter, although her house is only a few blocks from the help center where Masha was:
- We charged Stani-slava H. under three articles of the Criminal Code, - says Alexander Shatverov, an investigator for especially important cases of the Investigative Committee at the Prosecutor's Office, - rape, sexual acts, causing grievous bodily harm. The materials of the case have already been submitted to the court.
Masha had an operation, there is another one ahead. According to doctors, it will not be possible to fully restore her health:
There was another defendant in the case of abuse of Masha. Natalya's cousin sometimes drank with Stanislav. During one of the boozes, Stas boasted to his drinking buddy that he was having sex with a girl. Natalia's brother stayed overnight and abused Masha. But he did not live to see the trial: in February 2009, he hanged himself in the forest near the Khanino station near Suvorov. Detectives say he didn't want to be in jail for child rape...

I want to tell you my story. My mother divorced my father when I was 7 years old. When I was 11, she brought a new man into the house.

At first everything was fine, my stepfather and I got along great, but over time I began to notice some oddities in him. He constantly looked at me in a strange way, “accidentally” touched me everywhere, etc. At that time I was very naive and kind, so I did not pay attention to all this.

After a while, my stepfather got drunk and came home drunk, and I was alone in the apartment. And he just raped me, and after that, he said that if I even hinted at my mother, then I would have problems. I was terribly frightened then, and hid everything from my mother.

After the rape, I withdrew into myself, stopped wanting something. I felt like I had nothing more to live for. After this incident, I rarely appeared at home, I constantly walked. So six months passed, my stepfather did not touch me anymore.

All the worst happened on New Year's Eve. Mom went to congratulate her parents, and my stepfather and his friends (they came to us to celebrate the New Year) were left alone. Then my stepfather and his three friends raped me and intimidated me again. At that time, I kept a personal diary, and, of course, wrote down the events of New Year's Eve there. A week after the holiday, my mother found my diary, and instead of kicking this freak out, she yelled at me, did not believe me, and kicked me out of the house, but a few days later I returned.

For a year, this freak and his friends raped me, and I was afraid to tell my mother, I knew she would not believe. I have changed a lot in all this time. She stopped communicating with her friends, constantly ran around in tears, treated everyone like enemies, became very cruel, scored on her studies, and my mother did not even notice it!

And after a while, it turned out that my stepfather was seriously ill and he needed money for an expensive operation. After he found out about the disease, he quit his job and lay on the couch all day (although he could work).

Mom took out a loan, and after the operation, we could barely make ends meet. The stepfather was still lying on the sofa, whining that there was no work, and if there was, then they paid little for it. Everyone seemed to have forgotten about me. My mother constantly consoled my stepfather, saying that he would find a good job, she did not pay any attention to me.

I needed money for normal clothes, I wanted to eat delicious food (and there was little money, they saved terribly on everything) and I became a prostitute. I didn’t care then, because I was raped at home, so what’s the difference? And so I got some money.

There were a lot of clients because of my young age, and soon I started coming home in normal clothes, bringing a lot of food. I bought myself a variety of trinkets. My mother was not even interested in where I got the money from. But one day, after a long break, my stepfather decided to rape me again.

I don’t know why, but at that moment I was so furious that I took a knife and said that if he even tried, I would kill him. He did not touch me, and I packed my things and left the house. So, as then I was a prostitute, I had money, and I settled with my friend “at work”.

Six months later, I found out that my stepfather had been hit by a car and returned home, because I felt sorry for my mother, she must have been very worried. Then I abandoned prostitution, became, like all girls of my age, attended school. A few months later, my mother met a man and now he lives with us.

My new stepfather is good enough and kind, he doesn't bother me. Everything seems to be fine, but my heart sucks. I feel like I'll never be normal, because I voluntarily became a prostitute. For me, it's like a brand. I am afraid to look people in the eye and most of all I am afraid that my mother will know the truth. She can't take it. I don't understand how to live on, I'm confused. What should I do?

After the court verdict, the second stage of the nightmare began: the teenager and her mother began to be persecuted by the stepfather's relatives and the society, which for some reason pities and supports the rapist. And again she was afraid and silent. She spoke quite recently, when only one year was left before the release of her stepfather, who was sentenced to 11 years, and news began to come to the girl from places not so distant, they say, they would not leave her alive.

If 10 years ago, then a 14-year-old girl and her mother fought to put her stepfather in prison, now - to return the status of innocent.

Telling everyone about what happened to her, Aliya decided after hearing the story leader of the anti-violence movement "Don't Be Silent" Dina Smailova, which published an open letter to the public on July 9, 2016. It was about how, many years ago, the gang rape committed over her backfired on the life of a long-grown woman.

I was surprised that Dina spoke about it so openly,” says Aliya. - But when others started talking about the same thing, I realized: they do it not because they live sweetly and smoothly after the rapist is punished. For example, I had anger and resentment at everyone, but I gave myself a mindset - not to cry, to keep everything in myself.

While brewing in its own juice, it was hard. And when Dina said that if I stop being afraid, then I myself can become the one who will help others, I believed her. I myself did not expect myself to speak at the international conference “One Year of Silence”. Now I don't even remember what I was talking about. Only a couple of words remained in my memory that I was not a victim, although after my stepfather was sentenced to 11 years, I really survived for another 10 years. It was not only persecution by the stepfather's relatives. He himself came to me in my dreams, as if in reality I heard his voice.

His family is sure that I made it all up. Trying to catch me in a lie, they persecute me and my mother. I was already on my knees asking them to leave my life, but they stubbornly follow on their heels. My stepfather's sister said that when he got out of prison, I would be "killed". Did I get scared? While he is sitting, it seems to me that I can stand up for myself and for my mother and sisters.

When I went to a psychologist and once again experienced what he had done to me, I said: if after his release something happens not even to me, but to my relatives, I will do everything to protect them. True, I’m not at all sure that at the sight of my stepfather, that frightened child will not wake up in me again, who was ready to run anywhere and even die completely (this was in my life, my girlfriend and her mother saved), just not to stay under the same roof with him. On the other hand, the desire to look into the eyes of this person and understand whether he admitted his guilt is stronger than fear.

Mothers, love your children more than your husbands.

- Have the resentments against your mother for her husband already passed today?

For now, I can't say.

- What would you advise to those women who, having children, are going to get married again, from the height of their 24 years?

I don't blame them. But I myself want to get married once and only for a loved one. While I'm not in a hurry to seriously look at someone. I know that my childhood and teenage traumas can affect the person who can become my husband.

I still have aggression, anger and resentment in my soul, however, if others drown it out with alcohol, drugs and pills, then I am a sport. I am sociable, the soul of the company, but my motto is: do not complain! I came to “Don't be silent.kz” only to get support.

I want to tell mothers to love their children. For any complaint - burned, fell, scratched - pay attention. And if the child suddenly for some reason does not want to go to the store with your husband, hear him.

When a woman loves a man, it often happens that she does not see or hear what is happening around. And if, moreover, she had psychological trauma in the past (parents beat her, for example), she is ready to be committed over her child: if only the nightmares she experienced would not be repeated. I'm not talking about my mother, but in general about those women who marry with children from previous marriages.

- Have you tried to complain to your mother about the harassment of her husband?

Maybe I would have tried, but my stepfather threatened that if I told my mother about this, he would leave her, and she would kill me for it.

- And you believed?

Well, how not to believe if I was then only 8 years old? I was afraid of him. When he hit my mother for the first time in front of me, I stood between them, and he hit me so hard that he broke his nose. How could I then tell her what he was doing to me? I worried about her and my sisters. Once he came drunk and brushed off the sofa, like a thing, his daughter - my little sister. She would have fallen to the floor if I hadn't caught her. Although my three sisters have different fathers, they are all dear and beloved to me. I also consider my half-brother, who lives in Russia, to be my own.

- How do you imagine your future today?

Work through all your fears and become a healthy, balanced personality. I can’t say that tomorrow I will get married, give birth to a bunch of children, I will definitely become happy and leave for another country. I am responsible to the younger sisters and to the project “Don't be silent. Children.kz”. I set myself such a bar - to work and work on myself and help teenagers - both boys and girls.

Find the strength to face the truth

Comment of the leader of the anti-violence movement “Don't be silent”:

It is very difficult for society to understand the situation in which this family finds itself. When Aina Buzik, the mother of Aliya Yestenova, posted her story on the Web, women rushed to condemn her: what kind of mother is she who has not seen that her daughter has been raped by her husband for years?! And I, until I met her in person and did not understand what it was like to be a constant victim (in the parental home, Aina herself was not loved and poked, at the age of 16 she was raped, her husbands beat), I also thought so. From the lips of Aliya came the phrase: my mother did not want to be beaten and raped, so she turned a blind eye to everything. That is, the hopelessness was complete.

Incest is the most hushed up topic, and yet 70 percent of the 200 letters that I received after I spoke about the gang rape that I myself suffered were about this. Uncles, grandfathers, dads, stepfathers... But the children have nowhere to run.

We had a case when a five-year-old girl raped by her stepfather was accused by her mother of “wagging her ass”. And the Kazakhs still have such a wild tradition - to give the eldest child to the elderly. Parents do not think at all that tomorrow they will still have to pick it up and the child will end up in a family that is not for him. As it happened in the case of Aina Buzik, the mother of Aliya Yestenova, who was already a schoolgirl who ended up with her real parents.

There was a case when a grandfather raped his granddaughter from the age of three. When the girl was already 7, she threatened that she would tell her parents everything. The lustful old man fell behind, but when the girl was already 15, she was gang-raped. Then everything became clear.

Our people are irresponsible, they are used to scolding the state, laws and continue to live by double standards. They see and hear, for example, that a neighbor brutally beats his wife, but they shake his hand and thereby approve of violence.

Now I understand: no matter how much we build crisis centers, no matter how much we create state programs, there will be violence until society changes its attitude towards it.

Builders from the Kazakh town of Shemonaikha saw that the boss was harassing an orphan, 19-year-old house painter Lena Ivanova. They hid her together, but not a single man went to beat the boss in the face.. These people still treat Lena well, but I'm sure they won't go to court to defend her.

As for the relatives of Aliya Estenova's stepfather, who are persecuting her, they are protecting not the rapist, but their own name. Aina Buzik, who was wandering with three small children and a 14-year-old injured teenager in rented apartments, was offered to buy an apartment in Russia as compensation. But the woman, having decided to fight for her child to the end and knowing at the same time that there were few chances, refused.

The horror of this situation is that the whole family - the mother and her four children - after the verdict of the trial of the rapist was driven into a corner.

When a person has an accident, everyone runs to support him in the hospital, but here, when the soul and body are broken, there is no sympathy. For some reason, an adult man is associated with some kind of dirt, shame. Not enough persecution of the relatives of the ex-husband, so also the parents of classmates, directors of all schools in Astana took up arms against the girl. It was already a trauma. Frightened society shied away from her. Aina had to leave Astana for Almaty, but her former relatives were found here as well. And again they offer money so that the rapist can get out on parole. Knowing how hard it is for Aina (some days she and her children go to bed hungry), tried to breed her for 50 thousand tenge. The woman was already ready to sign everything that was going to slip her. The notary stopped me: “You fought courageously for 10 years. And now, for 50 thousand tenge, are you ready to give up all your claims?”. And Aina is just tired, she has no job, no money, no home. After that, the younger sister of the former called her: “Did you ask for money? Shame on you, my parents have tuberculosis. They want to see their son before they die.” Worrying about her mother and father, this woman did not even hint at the girl, whose fate her convicted brother walked with a tank.

This man kept the girl away for seven years, and there is no guarantee that he will leave her alone. There are many cases when a rapist, going free, is looking for a new victim.

After all, we don’t have such that in all public places, starting from the entrances, a sign was hung out: “A rapist lives here, beware of him!”.

After all, what? They are sophisticated psychologists who know how to make a child so addicted that for years he will feel guilty both for what happened to him and for the fact that this person was finally imprisoned.

And don't be under any illusions. Pedophilia is a way of life. Since 2018, released pedophiles are going to undergo chemical castration: at a certain time of the day, they are required to take pills that reduce potency and sexual fantasies in the presence of witnesses. But such castration, in my opinion, carries an even greater danger. After all, there are antidrugs, after taking which, the castrated pedophile will again look for a defenseless person. In addition, this procedure will not be applied to each of them. Most likely, she will not touch Aliya's stepfather, because the old law is applied to him.

Therefore, Aliya worries, but not for herself, but for others. After all, the same nieces of her stepfather do not understand that for him they are not relatives, but simply a body to satisfy sophisticated sexual fantasies.

Rebecca Fannin was raped by her stepfather from the age of 8, until at the age of 13 she gave birth to a child from him and was forced to give him up for adoption by her mother.

Benny Blevins became a father to Rebecca Fanin at the age of 65. A seven-year-old girl endured abuse from him three times a week for the next 11 years. In 1994, she became pregnant with his son and signed the adoption papers, allowing her mother Barbara and stepfather Benny to raise the boy as their child. At 18, Rebecca married to escape a dirty trailer in Campbellsville, Kentucky. The parents did not allow the girl to approach their own son and told her that she was a terrible mother.

At the age of 38, Rebecca dared to testify against her stepfather after Blevins was jailed for ten years. The girl admits that all her childhood memories are connected with a man who tried to have sex with her. Benny first raped a girl at the age of 8, after which he abused the child 3 times a week. “When I told my mom that I was pregnant, she assumed it was my boyfriend's baby. But I was only 13! We didn't have sex,” Rebecca recalls.

Stepfather blackmailed Rebecca to the altar and tried to rape him even after marriage, but the girl threatened to kill him.