"Family Traditions" (Round table). Round table "Family traditions - the holiday" Nauryz "Round table family traditions

Hello dear parents! Today we have gathered to talk about the family, about family traditions and their importance in the upbringing and development of the child.

The moral health of the family, its spiritual values ​​and, consequently, its potential educational opportunities can be judged by the traditions established in it. Tradition in Latin means "transfer". Tradition is what has passed from one generation to another, what has been inherited from previous generations (views, tastes, ideas, customs).

If you pronounce the word “childhood” and close your eyes, then along with your loved ones, with your native walls, something special will arise in your mind that is unique to your family. This "something" is a family tradition. And it is remembered only because it was repeated many times, firmly settled in the children's memory and is already inextricably linked with a certain reaction to an event. What traditions live in your home? Probably the ones you remember from your childhood. Here is what your children said about holidays and family traditions. All of them, without exception, like to be at home, because there are a lot of toys at home, a TV, a computer, one of the respondents said that it’s quiet at home, you can relax, the other said that relatives are at home, it’s fun there, we play together. Your children remember such national holidays as New Year, February 23, March 8, Easter. Of the holidays that happen at your home, they called the New Year and Birthday. They love their birthday because they are given gifts, and only a few say that friends come on this day, remember the clown, cake, candles. To the question "Where do you like to go with your parents?" children answer: to the store, to the carousel, to the circus. A few said that they like to go to the theatre, go for walks, go skiing, go to the village to visit their grandmother. We invite you to remember family traditions, relax a little and play. Today the game is waiting for us, The kids love this activity. But at the meeting our children do not play, And they give way to their parents.

Parents are divided into 2 teams

Warm up. Educator: I will give you a task: try to count how many people are in this family:

Listen, here is my family Grandpa, grandma and brother.

We have order in the house, harmony and cleanliness, and why?

We have two mothers in our house,

Two dads, two sons

Sister, daughter-in-law, daughter.

And the youngest is me.

What kind of family do we have? (6 people)

Educator: For a long time, they spoke about the house and family with a smile and love. From this far, legends, fairy tales, proverbs and sayings have come down to us. Let's remember them. I start and you finish.

Task 1 "Finish the sentence"

1. Away is good, but ... (home is better).

2. The hut is not red with corners, but ... (red with pies).

3. There is discord in the family, and at home ... (not happy).

4. The family agrees, and so it goes ... (fine).

5. When the family is together, and ... (heart in place).

6. Family is the key to ... (happiness).

Educator: If on September 1 you plant a tree with your child or decorate a Christmas tree with your children on New Year's Eve, and on May 9 you congratulate your grandfather or veteran neighbor in a special way, all this strengthens family ties, helps in raising children.

Task number 2. - From the selected letters on the cards - tasks, add the words denoting the traditions used in holding family holidays. -Read it.

W A P L D E

A I R L D G

E KSH U Y T

I H I T Y G

F Y R C K X

Y Q I L Y N

Y S V A P T

E A P N R O

R G S M I T

F Y W A K E

Z R O L D E

M I T Ya A Yu

S Y C E C E

P M R O E O

J O N Y V Y

A Y P O Y F

S M B M H I

E C K E D A

N U C O E N

A B B A P O

S V G H S O

D M I N C

I S YO M I T

CH L Y K U A

Educator: We have a tradition in kindergarten - to arrange holidays for children. These are “Golden Autumn!”, “Mom, dad, I am a sports family”, “New Year”, “March 8.

Every family has a tradition: in the evenings, the child and I have sincere conversations, sit side by side and tell each other about our day, impressions, and innovations.

Competition 4 "Family quiz"

1. As you know, the Greek goddess Athena was the goddess of wisdom, and the owl was considered her bird. But the goddess Hera, the wife of Zeus, was considered the patroness of the family in general and motherhood in particular. Guess which bird was considered "Hera's bird"? (Stork.)

2. What is said about those who disclose internal family troubles and quarrels? (Take dirty linen out of the hut.)

3. Here is a Russian proverb: "To live for oneself is to smolder, for the family - ... (a verb is missing), and for the people - to shine." Name the missing verb. (Burn.)

4. According to legend, Russia is guarded by three sisters: Vera, Nadezhda and Lyubov and their mother. Name the mother of the three sisters. (Sophia, that is, Wisdom.)

5. The first, eldest child in the family is the first-born. And what was the name of the third child in the family in Russia? And the last one? (Tretyak, scratch.)

6. How does the Russian “fruit” proverb sound about who inherited bad, unseemly behavior from his father or mother? ("The apple never falls far from the tree".)

7. What Russian toy is this quote from the encyclopedia about: "It personifies the idea of ​​a strong family, prosperity, procreation, carries the idea of ​​unity"? (About matryoshka.)

9. In which Andersen's fairy tale is the right of the child violated: "Children have the right to live with their parents, and no one is allowed to separate them"? ("The Snow Queen". From the grandmother's house, the Snow Queen took little Kai to her ice palace.)

11. Name the most family geometric figure. (Circle. A close family circle, in a family circle.)

12. Parental briefing in one word is ... (Instruction.)

13. Which plant represents both a native and an adopted relative at the same time? (Mother and stepmother.)

14. There is an alphabetic family in which, according to numerous verses, "thirty-three sisters." What is this family? (Alphabet.)

Educator:

Family readings, when not only parents read, but also older children, grandparents, is a great opportunity to spend an evening with the family, relax, chat and leave unforgettable impressions about these evenings in the memory of the child

Competition 6 "Literary relatives"

In the titles of famous works, insert the missing words that are the names of family members.

"..." M. Gorky. ("Mother".)

Robbers", A.S. Pushkin. ("Brothers-robbers") "

Karamazov", F.M. Dostoevsky. ("The Brothers Karamazov".)

"Three...", A.P. Chekhov. ("Three sisters") "

Vanya", A.P. Chekhov. ("Uncle Vanya".) "

Mazai and hares", N.A. Nekrasov. ("Grandfather Mazai and hares.) "Captain's

...", A.S. Pushkin. ("The Captain's Daughter".) "

Regiment", V.P. Kataev. ("Son of the Regiment.)"

Captain Grant", J. Verne. ("Children of Captain Grant") "

Fedor, dog hiccups", E. Uspensky. ("Uncle Fedor, dog and cat.")

Educator:

Maintaining trust in the family is another good tradition. Trust is the ability to honestly and directly discuss any, even the most complex, topics with each other. Maintaining mutual trust in the family is one of the most important tasks of parents.

Competition 7 "Discussion"

Let's say that you are going to spend a day off with your family in the forest, and on this day it is raining. What are you going to do?

You have come on an excursion to the natural park, and it is closed for visitors that day. What are you going to do?

Educator:

For the full development of a child, a holiday is necessary like air. A holiday for a child is not the same as for us adults. A holiday is an event in a child's life, and a child counts his days from holiday to holiday, just as we count our years from one important event to another.

Competition 8 "Sunshine"

Take each one of the sunbeams that are pre-made for you and write with a pen any family tradition, and it does not have to be your family tradition. Now, voicing the tradition that you wrote, we attach our rays to the sun. Since there are families in the group that do not yet have family traditions, we will try to offer a variety of traditions.

Warm up

Educator:

We invite you to plunge into childhood and remember what you dreamed about when you were children. I have a teddy bear in my hands, which each of you will pick up and tell us about a childhood dream. What do you think your children dream about? And now we will listen to you.

Educator: Family traditions are not only holidays, but also a gala dinner every Sunday, when the whole family is gathered, and a festive service is removed from the sideboard - then after many years, elderly parents will not sit at the Sunday table alone.

Many examples of different family traditions can be cited. What they have in common is the trepidation with which everyone remembers them, the desire to transfer them to their family. If your family does not have traditions, come up with them. This will make your life and the childhood of your children much richer. We offer you a reminder that we hope will help you increase the number of family traditions.

1st part

Dear parents! I am very glad that we all gathered today, and gathered to talk about your families, about your family traditions and their importance in the upbringing and development of your child.

According to the definition of V. I. Dahl, a FAMILY is a set of close relatives living together: parents with children.

For a long time about the house, the family has always been spoken of with love and respect. From ancient times, legends, fairy tales, proverbs and sayings about the family have come down to us. Who can name proverbs or sayings, let's ask the parents.

Being a guest is good, but being at home is better;

Children are not a burden, but a joy;

When the family is together and the heart is in place

The mother feeds the children, as the land of the people;

There is nothing dearer than a father and mother;

Family is family.

Each family should have its own traditions, but some families do not observe traditions, and do not even know what it is. Today I want to talk about the traditions that exist in many families.

Tradition 1. Family holidays

Do you think holidays are necessary for children in the family? (answers)

Yes, for the full development of a child, a holiday is necessary like air. For a child, a holiday is not the same as for us adults. A holiday is an event in a child's life, and the child counts his days from holiday to holiday, like us, his years from one event to another.

How do you arrange children's holidays in the family? (answers)

Do not forget, the holiday is not for an adult, but for a child. Sometimes the baby is bored at his birthday (everyone forgot about him), and vice versa, all the attention is on him and the child is a witness to adult conversations and a participant, then he gets used to being the center of attention, which develops in him indiscretion, swagger.

You should not force the child to perform if he does not want to. He himself must express his desire to sing, dance, if it falls out to him during the game or for a phantom.

How do you think you need to decorate an apartment for the holiday? What does it give the child? (parents' answers)

Is it important for everyone, both children and adults, to participate?

Everyone loves gifts, especially children.

What gifts do you give to children? (parents' answers).

The gift should be a little for growth, but in moderation. Each toy should develop the child, develop memory, thinking, attention. Develop physically: balls, jump ropes. For the development of fine motor skills - pencils, plasticine. In this case, you need to pay attention to how the child accepts the gift and how thanks for it.

It is good to photograph a child with family on his birthday. To think over an entertainment program, to purchase various trinkets for games - attractions, the success of children's creativity depends on the fiction and imagination of adults.

Tradition 2. Family archives

It's not the past, it's always tomorrow.

The family should have its own archive: certificates of honor, medals of fathers, grandfathers, family history and surnames.

Tradition 3. Family album

This is a huge meaningful space of life, on the one hand, simple and understandable to a child, on the other hand, mysterious and amazing.

When was the last time you flipped through it?

The selection of photographs, the design of the pages of the album is exactly the kind of communication that an older preschooler needs in his joint activities with his parents.

A specific image in the photograph is associated with one or another story from the life of family members, which arouses the keen interest of the child and stimulates his memorization.

Tradition 4. Family vacation in nature

Tell me, which of you has traditions to travel out of town, to the country with your child?

Nature has a huge impact on the child on the development of the personality of a preschooler, makes it possible to communicate well with the child, and walks in nature have a positive effect on human health, develop him, teach him to protect the environment, get acquainted with the life of plants, animals, birds, insects.

Tradition 5. Family visits to theaters, museums, exhibitions

Which of you constantly goes with children to museums, theaters, exhibitions?

Human beings always have a desire for beauty. Each nation has its own culture, its own customs, its own traditions. We adults should contribute to introducing children to the large and complex world of beauty, nature, and art. Visiting museums should be a holiday for the whole family.

Tradition 6. Collecting

It is very good that there is a tradition in the family, but if not, then you can offer to collect any collections, especially after visiting the museum there is a choice (pebbles, shells, driftwood, candy wrappers, beads, stamps). As a result, the child awakens the need for conscious activity, the ability to appreciate the beautiful and respect the work of people.

Our task is to help the child successfully enter the modern world, take a worthy place in the system of relations with other people.

Tradition 7. Games with a child

Tell me, what games and how do you play with your child?

What type of activity is leading in preschool age?

We can say with confidence Childhood is a game, a game is childhood.

Childhood is given so that we prepare the child for entry into a rather complex social life, replenished with emotions, experiences, ideas, so that the spiritual life in him begins to move. Irga is the life of a child and the choice of games should become traditional in every family. Lots of games and toys. You should carefully approach their selection. You need to play various games: board, mobile, verbal, educational.

Good games like loto, dominoes, checkers, chess. We advise you to definitely play games with natural and junk material. For example: “Guess what plant the seeds are from? "," Who, who was? "," What can fly? ”, “Find what looks like an apple.”

It is in your hands to raise children who are literate, educated, well-mannered, loving and honoring their parents, who know their pedigree.

There are a lot of traditions, you can plant a tree or go out of town on New Year's Eve to decorate a live Christmas tree. It is a tradition to visit museums, exhibitions, theaters with the child. These are traditional hikes, walks, picnics in nature. This is the compilation of family albums, the genealogy of your family. This is reading books.

2nd part:

Dear parents! Let's take a look at a few situations together with you:

SITUATION 1: The boy was punished. He got two deuces. His father had a serious talk with him and, as a punishment, did not allow him to leave the house. Friends came and invited him to go to the cinema. Mom took pity on her son and began to persuade his father to let him go with friends. There was a conflict between the parents.

What is the right thing to do to avoid conflict?

LAW: Parents must make uniform demands on their child.

SITUATION 2: Parents decided to go out of town, to work in the country. Everyone found a job, except Petya. He was offered to weed the beds, to bring water from the spring, but he refused all offers. He ran around the garden for butterflies, shouted, interfered with work. Why did such a situation arise?

LAW: The foundations of industriousness must be laid from childhood.

SITUATION 3: The girl really wanted to make a surprise for her mother. She came home from school, washed the dishes, cooked dinner. Mom came home from work. The girl rushed to her and kissed her. Mom was not in the mood and did not react to the kiss. Then the daughter invited her to the table for supper. After dinner, my mother said thank you and went to her room. What would you do in her place?

LAW: A child needs affection, praise.

4 SITUATION: Mom came home from work, her son met her at the entrance to help carry bags to the fifth floor. At home, he offers her slippers and sets the table. After dinner, the boy sat down to do his homework in Russian with his mother, as he could not cope on his own. Mom explained the task to him, checked the diary, praised him for the "A" and hugged him tenderly. What do you think about the relationship between the members of this family?

LAW: Respectful attitude of family members to each other.

5 SITUATION: There are two children in a family: a brother and a sister. My brother is in 4th grade, my sister is in kindergarten. Sister is given more attention, since she is still small. They buy toys for her more often than for her brother, based on the fact that he has come out of this age. The boy is very offended, but the parents do not react to this. What should we not forget when raising children of different ages?

LAW: The family must have a correct and even distribution of material and moral resources for children.

CONCLUSION: If these laws are replenished in the family, then the child will take place as a person.

Municipal autonomous preschool educational institution of the city of Kogalym "Birch"

Outline of a round table for parents on the topic: "Family traditions in the modern world"

Prepared and hosted:

educator MADOU "Birch"

Klimina A.A.

Kogalym

2017

Family Traditions in the Modern World

Target: involvement of parents in the establishment of rules, norms of behavior, customs, traditions in the family, that is, in the formation of family values.

Tasks:

• reveal the meaning of the concept of "family traditions";
• determine the role of the family in shaping values ​​of a preschooler;
• to cultivate a desire to observe existing family traditions;
• shape the rise in the status of the family in our society;
• contribute to the establishment of friendly, good relations in the family.

Outline plan:

I part Introductory remarks by the educator:

Good afternoon dear parents! Our today's meeting is devoted to a very topical problem - the problem of family traditions in the modern world.

What is the modern family like? Do we, modern parents, consider traditions the most important means of upbringing in the family?

Before starting our conversation, I offer you an interesting warm-up.

A game . From ancient times, fairy tales, proverbs and sayings about the family have come down to us. Now we will remember them, I begin, and you finish. So, let's begin:

• Being a guest is good, but being at home is better);
• He does not paint the hut with corners, but (paints with pies);
• What is at home, such is (to oneself);
• Children are not a burden, but (a joy);
• When the family is together and (the heart is in place);
• To every mother his own (child is sweet);
• You will find everything in the world except (mother and father);
• The mother feeds the children as (the land of the people);
• There is no kinder person (father and mother);
• There is no more expensive (father and mother);
• Family is (seven I).

Many scientists say today that traditions are practically lost in the modern family, which negatively affects the upbringing of the younger generation.

Preparing for this event, I had a conversation with the pupils on the topic: "Our family traditions." It turned out that our children do not know that they have family traditions and that each family has its own. It can be concluded that parents at one time did not convey to their children the meaning of the words "FAMILY", "FAMILY TRADITIONS". But this is very important for the child! If the family has its own traditions, then the child will feel confident and protected in this life.

I suggest you think about what the word “tradition” means (statements of parents). On the slide in front of you is the definition of this concept, found in the dictionary. Read and analyze how this definition matches your ideas about family traditions.

Dahl dictionary definition: Tradition- forms of activity and behavior transmitted from generation to generation, as well as customs, rules, values, and ideas accompanying them. The tradition is formed on the basis of such forms of activity, which have repeatedly confirmed their significance and personal benefits. When there is a change in the social situation of the development of a particular community, the tradition can be destroyed, transformed and replaced by a new one. Traditions are the most important factor in the regulation of people's life, they form the basis of education.

And now I have a request for you to raise your hand to those who believe that the preservation and transmission of family traditions is necessary for educating the younger generation... And who thinks that today it is quite possible to do without it? Please try to justify your position.

II part Teacher's speech:

What is it - "Family Traditions"?

These are, of course, the holidays that families celebrate (birthday, New Year, etc.). It can be a tradition to plant a tree or go out of town on New Year's Eve to decorate a live Christmas tree. It is a tradition to visit museums, exhibitions, theaters with the child. These are joint games, or congratulations from relatives. These are traditional, walks, picnics in nature. This is the compilation of family albums, the genealogy of your family.

The game is being played "Sun rays".

Take each one of the sunbeams that are pre-made for you and write with a marker any family tradition, and it doesn’t have to be your family tradition. Now, voicing the tradition that you wrote, we attach our rays to the sun.

Since there are families in the group that do not yet have family traditions, we will try to offer a variety of traditions.

Tradition 1. Family holidays

Are holidays necessary for children in the family, what do you think? (answers)

Of course, yes, a holiday is simply necessary for a child to fully develop. For a child, a holiday is not at all what it is for us adults. A holiday is an unforgettable event in a child's life. Each child counts the days from holiday to holiday, like us, his years from one event to another. “Dim and gray would be this childhood if holidays were thrown out of it” / K. Ushinsky/.

Do you arrange children's holidays in the family? How do you do it? (answers)

It must be remembered that the holiday is not for an adult, but for a child. You can often observe the following picture: the baby is bored at his birthday (everyone forgot about him), or vice versa, all the attention is on him and the child is a witness to adult conversations and a participant, then he gets used to being the center of attention, which develops in him indiscretion, swagger.

Don't force your child to perform if he doesn't want to. He himself must express his desire to sing, to recite a poem.

Do you think it is necessary to decorate an apartment for the holiday? What is it for? What does it give the child? (parents' answers)

Is it important for everyone, both children and adults, to participate?

Everyone loves to be given gifts, especially children.

Do you give gifts to your children? Which? (answers of parents).

The gift should be a little for growth, but in moderation. Each toy should develop the memory, thinking, attention of the child. Develop physically: balls, jump ropes, hoops. For the development of fine motor skills - pencils, plasticine. At the same time, it is necessary to pay attention to the mood with which the child accepts the gift and how he thanks for it.

It’s good if you take pictures of a child with your family on your birthday. Also think over a program for entertainment, purchase various trinkets for games - attractions, the success of children's creativity depends on the fiction and imagination of adults.

Tradition 2. Pedigree

And now I offer a comic warm-up. Try to count how many people are in the family.

“Listen, here is my family:

Grandpa, grandma and brother

We have order in the house, okay

And purity, why?

We have two mothers in our house,

Two dads, two sons.

Sister, daughter-in-law, daughter

And the youngest is me.

What kind of family do we have?

(6 people, brother, sister, their parents, grandparents)

With the help of such a riddle, we touched on an interesting topic - family relationships.

Each of us is a successor of his kind. And the roots of each kind, like the roots of a tree, go far into antiquity. And that kind is strong, who remembers his ancestors and protects.

As an example, I propose a family tree, pay attention to the slide. Try to make your family tree, start with yourself (5 min. task).

Who came up with the name for you? Where are your parents from? Grandpas? grandmothers? Who came up with the name for your child?

It will be very cool if you start collecting the history of your kind. It will be a kind of bridge between the generations of your ancestors and descendants. This will be your family biography, which you can simply and intelligibly tell your children about.

Tradition 3. Family archives

It's not the past, it's always tomorrow.

A family must have its own archive: diplomas, medals of fathers, grandfathers, history of their family and surname.

Definitely a family album.

Tradition 4. Family album

This is a huge space of our life, on the one hand, simple and understandable to a child, on the other hand, mysterious and amazing.

When was the last time you flipped through your family album?

Examining photographs, designing album pages - this is exactly the kind of communication that an older preschooler needs in his joint activities with his parents.

The image in the photo is always associated with some story from the life of family members, this arouses the keen interest of the child and stimulates his memorization.

Tradition 5. Family outdoor recreation

How many of you have such a tradition - to go to nature (to the country) with your child?

Nature has a positive effect on the child. Develops the personality of a preschooler, gives the opportunity for good communication with the child. Walking in nature has a positive effect on human health, develops it, teaches how to protect the environment, gets acquainted with the life of plants, animals, birds, insects.

Tradition 6. Family visits to theaters, museums, exhibitions

And now let's find out which of you constantly goes with children to museums, theaters, exhibitions? (parents' answers)

Man at all times is characterized by the desire for beauty. As we know, every nation has its own culture, customs and traditions. We adults should contribute to introducing children to the large and complex world of beauty, nature, and art. Visiting museums should be a holiday not only for the child, but for the whole family.

Tradition 7. Collecting

It is very good when a family has a tradition. And if not, then you can offer - collecting. Gather together any collections, especially after visiting the museum, there is a choice (pebbles, shells, driftwood, candy wrappers, beads, stamps). As a result, the child awakens the need for conscious activity, the ability to appreciate the beautiful and respect the work of people.

One of our most important tasks is to help the child successfully enter the modern world, to take its rightful place in the system of relations with other people.

Tradition 8. Joint games with a child

What games did you like as a child?

What games do you play with your child?

Do you know what kind of activity is leading in preschool age?

We can say with confidence "Childhood is a game, a game is childhood."

Childhood is given in order to prepare the child for entry into a rather complex social life, to be replenished with emotions and experiences. And the main task of preparing for this falls on you - the parents. The game is the life of a child and the choice of games should become traditional in every family. Lots of games and toys. You should carefully approach their selection. You need to play various games: board, mobile, verbal, educational.

Very good games of this type: lotto, dominoes, checkers, chess. We recommend that you definitely play games with natural and waste material. For example: “Guess what tree the fruit is from?”, “Who, who was?”, “What can fly?”, “Find what looks like an orange.”

It is in your power to raise children who are literate, educated, educated, loving and respectful of their parents, who know their ancestry.

III part Summarizing:

In conclusion of our communication, I propose to use the "Magic Piggy Bank" technique. The participants of the round table are invited to answer what they would like to put into the piggy bank and take with them into the future from the acquired knowledge.

Let's summarize this meeting. Family traditions, of course, occupy an important place in the development of a child's personality, and we, parents and teachers, must pay due attention to this area of ​​our life in order to educate a worthy citizen of our country. After all, it all starts with the family.

Parents are given memos "Values ​​of family education"

Round table "Family traditions in the moral education of preschoolers"

Preliminary work.

A week before the meeting, make together with the children and distribute invitations to parents in the form of a postcard with the themeparent meeting.

Record on tape the children's answers to the questions:

Children, do you like holidays? What holidays do you have at home?

Have you ever had to celebrate a holiday with adults, sit with them atone festive table?

What do you like most about this holiday?remembered?

Children do you like gifts?

Prepare tables for the meeting.

Round table.

Discussion of the topic of the Round Table:

If on New Year's Eve you go to the forest with your children in order to decorate the Christmas tree with treatsfor animals and birds, or on May 9, in a special way, congratulate your grandfather or neighbor - a veteran, all this holds togetherfamily ties, helps in the upbringing of children. Is it necessary to organize holidays on the occasion of the child's birthday?

Parent responses.

""You lovehome holidays? What are your holidays? What do you remember?"

Summary: For the full development of a child, a holiday is necessary like air. Let beeveryone will remember his childhood, and he will understand that a holiday for a child is not something thatthat for us, this is really an event in a child's life, and the child counts the daysfrom holiday to holiday, as we count years from one important eventour life to another. Conversely, dimand this childhood would be gray ifto throw out the holidays" , as K.D. Ushinsky.

Opinion exchange: How about the holidayshelp raise a child?

Riddles, quizzes,educational games develop the child's mind. There is a holiday in the house - you need to prepare gifts in advance, decorate the room, wash everything, clean it - this is how work enters the life of a child.

And when we draw, sing, read poetry, dance, put on makeup, listen to music,don't we educatetheir children aesthetically?

Discussion: What if a holiday, for example your birthday, you have to celebratein the circle of your friends, adults,and the child, seeing the preparation for it, asks:"Can I celebrate with you?" What will you answer? Is it possible to plantone festive table with older children? In what cases yes, no?

Listening to the tape recording with the children's answers to the questions: "Children, have you ever celebrated a holiday with adults,sit with them at the same festive table? What do you like most about this holiday?remembered? "

Formulation of the problem: Strange as it may seem, but there are also children's holidays, adults arrange forthemselves. Adults have their own interests, conversations, and children at such a holidayboring, and sometimes offensive: no one remembers the hero of the occasion.Often at adult holidays, the child is given special attention. They leave himat a common table, he becomes a witness to adult conversations, ofteninterferes with them. The child will say or do something funny - all thisseems funny, adults expect new jokes from him. The child gets used to beingthe center of attention, which develops immodesty and swagger in him. About suchholiday tells S. Mikhalkov in the poem "Poor Kostya" (reading the poem).

BUT sometimes we love to demonstrate the abilities of our child. And if
there are several children, peculiar "talent contests" are arranged.
But children do not like it when adults insistently demand performances from them.
Shy guys are especially shy. Make them perform
should not, they will be much more willing to sing, dance, tell something when
it falls to them to do during the game or for fun. Please remember this.

On birthdays, and sometimes on holidays, we give gifts to children, they love them and are always waiting. Please answer the following questions: What gifts do you prefer to give to your children?(Experience exchange). Do I need to give them on holidays? Which? How to give gifts in the New Year?

- Gifts should always be a little "for growth", but not too much, but in moderation.
Each toy should develop the child's thinking, attention, memory. Not
forget about balls and jump ropes, sports equipment, albums for
drawing and felt-tip pens, about books, about the alphabet in pictures, records with
fairy tales, children's songs. Boys can give the simplest set
tools: hammer, pliers, pliers, small screwdriver.
It is desirable that before entering school, the child has several favorites.
books, records, filmstrips.

Of course, gifts for children are by no means pampering, but, nevertheless, it is

It is easy to spoil children with gifts. Do you think your child can

accept gifts? Do you pay attention to it? Which answer will

your child's answer if they brought him a toy as a gift that he has

has already?

1st option: unwrapping the gift and thanking, the child says: "I dreamed of

such a machine!"

Option 2: "Well, why do I need such a machine? I already have one!"

A tape recording of the children's answers to the questions is turned on: "They came to you

guests, handed gifts, do they need to be unwrapped right there? What do you say if

suddenly you were given the same book, a toy that you already have?

(Discussion of the question by parents "How to give and receive gifts")

You are preparing for the holiday, waiting for guests in your house. Do you value

decorating a room in preparation for a celebration? How do you think you need

whether to decorate an apartment for the holiday? For what? What have you already used in your

home practice? How to decorate a room, house for the holiday?

After all, the mood of the guests largely depends on this, and we, captivating our children

common cause, we develop their creative abilities. Definitely the best decoration.

home - cleanliness and order.

By the solemn day, as a rule, they bring a special festive shine:

wash, beat out, rub. Let the big ones and the little ones do it. But to

Holidays also require special decorations. Decorating walls, windows, ceilings,

follow the measure. Remember, designs should not be repeated. Everytime

come up with something new, unusual, unexpected.

Of course, holidays without flowers are not holidays. Traditionally put in a vase

an odd number of stems. If there are no flowers, you can replace them with autumn,

winter bouquet-composition.

(Exchange of experience, secrets of craftsmanship: how to make twigs sprinkled with snow,

what to consider when composing a composition).

Musical pause. Now let's talk about celebrating your child's birthday.

Situation: Two mothers met and talked. "My son in two days

there will be a birthday, - one of them shared her joy. - I think guys

invite, bake pies, prepare salads, there will be music. Let them celebrate."

"And all?" - the interlocutor asked. "What else would you advise me? What

should I be a clown in front of them?"

Imagine that such a conversation took place with you, and your interlocutor

asks you for advice. What would you suggest? Will it be interesting

a holiday, if there are pies, cakes, salads on the table, does the music sound? will be remembered

does he have children? How to celebrate a child's birthday? What was interesting about

your family?

(Experience exchange).

The child becomes a year older. From year to year, explain to the children: you have become

older, stronger, smarter, you know more, you can do more. In many families

there is a custom on birthdays to mark on the wall (more often at the door) growth

child. Let him see how much he has grown in a year. Not bad if a day

birth You will photograph the child alone or in the family circle.

Think about the holiday, draw up a program, invite guests in advance,

so the kids can get ready. Think with your child how to invite

guests - these can be intricate invitation cards, homemade

postcards with children's drawings.

In order for a child to remember his birthday, you need to think over the program in advance.

Let there be games, attractions, contests, concerts in it. Decorate the holidays and

surprise moments. This may be the appearance of a fairy-tale hero - an adult

in the role of Dunno, the magician, Cheburashka.

Why did we touch on these issues? From the way we adults spend

holidays, involuntarily setting an example, depends on how our children will have a rest,

when they grow up, what values ​​they will cherish, what to rejoice at, why

pursuit. Our holidays should be as fun and interesting as

fiction, pleasant surprises. Success depends on your fiction, fantasy.

During solemn holidays, which are usually held in the family circle,

think of those who are lonely. Let no one feel at home in your house

forgotten and abandoned. Congratulate your neighbor or neighbor, give a bouquet

flowers, a willow twig, a handmade Christmas toy. And you

you will see: this is a modest manifestation of kindness in the heart of your child.

ROUND TABLE
"Family traditions"
Tasks:
- to cultivate love for one's family, to show the importance of the family in the upbringing of the younger generation;
- to emphasize the kind, attentive attitude of family members to each other;
- to instill pride and respect for family traditions.
Preliminary work:
- talking with children about family and family traditions;
- make gifts for parents with children;
- reading fiction, memorizing poems.
- collection of material for a photo exhibition;
- production of "Genealogical tree"
Meeting progress:
1 part:
- Hello, dear children. Good afternoon, dear parents and guests. Today we have gathered to talk about the family, about family traditions and their importance in the upbringing and development of the child. The moral health of the family, its spiritual values ​​and, consequently, its potential educational opportunities can be judged by the traditions established in it. Tell your parents, what do you understand by the word tradition?
(parents' answers)
Tradition in Latin means "transfer". Tradition is what was passed down from one generation to another, what was inherited from previous generations (views, tastes, ideas, customs).
If you pronounce the word “childhood” and close your eyes, then along with your loved ones, with your native walls, something special will arise in your mind that is unique to your family. This "something" is a family tradition. And it is remembered only because it was repeated many times .. Family traditions are a huge workshop in which everything is intertwined: inspiration, play, joy, creativity, skill, accuracy, art. It is known that each family has its own “living soul”, which has both a blooming garden of Eden and springs of “living” water.
Good traditions like these springs strengthen - give life to the family. Each clan, family has its own treasury of traditions, which, together with the dowry in forged chests, were inherited by children.
Every family has its own way of bringing children into common family traditions.
For some, these are family meals (lunches, dinners) - a wonderful tradition of getting together at the same table for communication.
Others share leisure time. A good continuation of the lunch will be joint leisure, for example, you can play some board game. Or go to nature and spend time actively in the fresh air.
At the third - family holidays. Each family has its own special traditions of celebrating family holidays. But each of them is shrouded in the mystery of love, warmth and tenderness of the family hearth.
Tell me who is dearest to you most in the world? (answers of children and parents) I agree with your answers that the family is the most important thing in life for a person and what happiness that you have wonderful families, there is a parental home - the beginning of all beginnings.
Family is the most important thing that each of us has. Family is a place where we will always look forward to returning. Where family and friends are always waiting for us and love. After all, it’s not for nothing that they say: “My family is my support, my family is my fortress.”
The family and its meaning are well described in the poem by Tatyana Bulkovskaya “What can be more precious than a family?” (children read the verse)
What could be more expensive for families? Warmly welcomes the father's house, They are always waiting for you here with love And see you off on the road with kindness! .Parents - wiser in everything, Beloved dad - friend, breadwinner, And mom is the closest, relatives. Love! And appreciate happiness! It is born in the family, What could be more precious in this fabulous land
Part 2 - Discussion of the family tree!
- Tell me, what do you think, are all families the same? Yes, different. And how do they differ?
(answers of parents - habits, way of life, customs, atmosphere, traditions).
A person is born into the world, grows, thinks: who am I? Where am I from? Where are my roots from? Since ancient times, one of the traditions in Russian families has been the tradition of learning about their ancestors, compiling their family tree - the Family Tree. And so you and your parents tried to compile your family trees. We would like to know more about your family tree.
-How many names does your family tree include?
-How long have you been working on it?
-Who helped in compiling your pedigree?
-I wonder what this job gave you?
-And who has already compiled a pedigree?
- I want to advise you not to throw away your works, keep them for your family, replenish your tree, learn about your relatives. And let this be your good family tradition.
Part 3 - Conversation about family traditions (family stories about themselves)
And now I want to ask you to tell about your family. What traditions do your families have, what holidays do you celebrate, etc.
Photo exhibition "Look into the family album"
- In the design of our hall, we used the photo exhibition “look into the family album”. Since 1929, when the French artist and designer Dagel invented photography, the tradition of compiling and storing family albums has firmly entered our lives. Every family has photographs that leave a memory of dear people, events in family life for a long time. Here at our exhibition are photographs from the family albums of our group. We organized this exhibition first in our group. The children and I looked at the photo albums with great interest. After all, only thanks to photographs, for example, can we learn something about our distant relatives or look into the past.
Physical education minute
Part 4 - Game "Culinary"
One of the most common Russian traditions was a feast. Entire generations gathered at the common table, the owners regaled them with some kind of food. Culinary traditions were not in the last place in Russia. Previously, cabbage soup, porridge, turnips, radishes, game, and fish were held in high esteem. From drinks beer, kvass. Everything flows, everything changes the tastes of people and other dishes appear on our tables and become traditional. I invite you and your children to draw your traditional dish and tell us about it. (parents and children draw their favorite dish)
You need to start your story with the words “traditional in our family is ....” . And you need to end the story with the words "lick your fingers."
Discussion of drawings.
Part 5 - Gifts for parents.
There is another good tradition - to give gifts to relatives and friends. And what are the best gifts to give? - handmade. My children and I have made handmade gifts for you and we want to give them to you.
Conclusion
- Well, our round table has come to an end. It is very important to follow family traditions, honor them, pass them on from generation to generation, most importantly, they are needed to strengthen the family, so that you have a home where you would like to constantly return.
Only from the standpoint of mutual responsibility and obligations of parents and teachers in relation to the child can good results be achieved. And I would like to end our mini meeting with the words “We influence the family through the child and for the child, we influence the child through the family and for the family”